What Can I Do if My Parents Want Me to Get an Abortion That I Don’t Want?

Navigating the pressure from your parents to get an abortion when it’s not what you want can be disheartening and disappointing. It’s essential to recognize that your feelings and choices are valid. You have the right to make decisions about your own body and future. 

We’ll explore steps you can take to communicate with your parents, seek support, and make an informed decision that aligns with your values and desires. Remember, you are not alone, and there are resources and people who can help you through this challenging time.

Communicating With Your Parents

The first thing to do is examine your relationship with your parents. Are they generally supportive of you, or do you often feel isolated as their child? If there’s any sign of abuse, know that this is not ok and seek help from the National Domestic Abuse Hotline, available 24/7. 

Prepare for a conversation by reviewing your options so you can articulate your plan. Choose a quiet, private time to have an open and honest conversation with them. 

Expressing your understanding of their concerns and fears can be helpful, showing that you appreciate their perspective. However, make sure to assert your own feelings and desires firmly. 

Staying calm and composed is important, even if the conversation becomes heated. Using “I” statements can help you communicate without sounding accusatory, such as “I feel strongly about keeping the baby” instead of “You’re trying to force me into this.”

Seeking Support

Seeking support from a trusted friend or support group can provide you with additional strength and perspective. 

Even if you don’t have this support net in your life, you always have us at HeartReach Center. 

We can offer you no-cost pregnancy services to get the care you deserve. We can also help you review your options so you get accurate information you can depend on. 

Make a free and confidential appointment today. 

*We do not refer or perform abortions.